I can’t accept any lectures about absence from mood-altering substances from anyone who smokes. Nicotine is a drug and a drug is a drug is a drug.
On the one hand, Y’all talk about not trying to manage your life, let go and let god. In the next sentence, something like this is said: my current situation is the result of my actions. Logically not paying bills or not doing other life managing tasks would lead to things like homelessness or vehicle re position.
The bottom line us stuff needs to be accomplished by action by the individual.